Q: Atty, my 23-year-old son impregnated his girlfriend who will turn 18 on August 12. The girl's side demanded that we finance her college education in nursing until she graduates to avoid a lawsuit. Is this demand fair? Thank you for the advice.

A: The situation described raises legal and moral considerations. Below are some key aspects that can guide your understanding:

Potential Legal Action

Without more specific information, it is unclear what legal action the girl's family may be referring to. If they are alleging that a crime has been committed, such as rape, they would need to provide evidence supporting that claim.

Negotiating Support

The demand for educational support for the girl may be seen as an attempt to negotiate some form of assistance or settlement. While there is no legal requirement to agree to such a demand, the parties may voluntarily negotiate terms that they find mutually acceptable.

Responsibilities of the Father

The father of the child (in this case, your son) may have legal obligations to provide support for the child once born. This support typically includes financial assistance for basic needs such as food, shelter, education, and medical care.

Consult with a Lawyer

Given the complexities of the situation, it would be wise to consult with an attorney who is knowledgeable about family law in the Philippines. A lawyer can review the specific facts of your case and provide guidance tailored to your circumstances.

Conclusion

The demand for college education for the girl may not have a clear legal basis, but it reflects broader issues of responsibility and support that may arise from the relationship and pregnancy. Engaging in open communication, possibly with legal counsel, may help all parties arrive at a fair and lawful resolution. It is essential to approach this matter with empathy and consideration for the best interests of all involved, including the unborn child.